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My girlfriend and I, age 19, have been dating for just under two years… we are great together. I love the way she makes me feel and how happy i am when i am with her, and she feels the same way. My mother is very controlling and has not liked my girlfriend for a while now. my sister and brother, who were once friends with my girlfriend, have acquired the traits of my mother and have come to not like her as well. my father was one of my friends, i could talk to him about anything, but the disliking of my girlfriend from my mother has caused my mother to yell at my father for allowing me to see her. my dad doesn’t like to get yelled at for something that he isn’t doing. so as a result my father, after getting yelled at for a little less than a year… has decided that he too doesn’t like her and that i do not need to be with her. my family thinks that i could do better than her and that i should break up with her and date other girls. but i lvoe this girl and cant stand the fact that my family hates the girl that i love and plan on marrying. it is become so bad that they refuse to allow me to see her and anywhere i go i am constantly checked up on to make sure i am not with her. i have to sneak around my family’s back to even see her for a half hour. The fighting and drama has taken it’s toll on her as well, she is extremely diheartened that my family feels this way about her. she and i, as well as the majority of my friends do not see a good reason to not like her. she asks me all the time if i still think she is worth fighting for against my family, and every time i tell her ” I Love You and will always fight for you.” My parents baby my siblings and I they pay for our three college tuitions, pay gas, insurance and up-keep on the two vehicles we drive… but i even in highschool felt that i didn’t want to be babied… i wanted my own car… i want to learn what it takes to live in the world. my parents and siblings in these past couple months have really been laying on the **** for my girlfriend and have told me that i needed to make a decision live under my parents rules and do not date her, and in return i have shelter clothes food education paid for and a car paid for…… OR…… leave, do whatever i want, i get to be with my girlfriend and dont have to follw their rules….but i must pay for my education insurance on a car that i would have to buy and gas as well as find a place to live and pay for that and food…. and my family doesn’t give us their blessing. this is not something my girlfriend wants over her head, she feels that she would be the reason my relationship with my family ended and she doesn’t want that on her conscience….

I need help, please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

– Completely Confused
Updated Relationship Status: my girlfriend hates that we can’t see each other and her and i have not been the same people… since i haven’t been allowed at all to see her. she wants to be with me desperately and i want to be with her… but she doesn’t want me to ruin my relationship with my family becasue of her so she wants us to step back and be apart until something changes with my family…. I told her and believe that by alllowing me to go back to my family will not make things better because i can’t and won’t forgive my family for what they have done to me and her…. if anything by us being apart this is going to make things worse…. i don’t have my family and i wont have her… i told her that my moving out is not just for her… it’s for me as well… before we dated my mother has caused everyone in my family including me such grief that we would avoid coming home while she was home just so we didn’t have to hear her *****….
i wont last living in my house and will move out reguardless if i am with her or not… and she said that ok she needs to see this… she cant have the huge weight that i moved out because of her… but i am afraid that if we are apart that she will find someone to fill my spot and that it wont matter if i moved out or not… because i wont have her and i wont have my family and i will be out on my own having to pay for my education, housing, car, insurance, and food without anyone to support me or me to talk to…. i need some help… can anyone help me please!!!!

–completely confused